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Well, I'm not the most qualified here, but, I am a birth father. You can read some of my story if you want. I couldn't be a apart of my daughters life because of poor communication, and fear. I got through it with denial. The fact that I had a daughter always stayed with me, and I thought about it often, weekly for 15 years. I have the problem of old feelings between me and my ex. do you suspect that either of you are still in "love"?
I am pretty good at hiding my feelings, good enough to hide them from myself. I also don't trust my feelings sometimes. I also like to be in control, and that part of my life wasn't, both from my actions, and the actions of others. With the pregnancy, I had no control, it was my Exs decision...I felt that she was trying to trap me, I was crazy. If you plan on working as a team, fine, but you MUST have trust. If not, maybe it is better to work seperatly as this is a fairly new situation.
Hope any of this babble helps...you asked?
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