[Sparky7]

Hey i'm Rachel and i have a toddler in open adoption. Ever since she was born its just been me with her her b dad couldnt handle everything so as soon as he terminated his right he left. Well up until a few short weeks ago he emailed me asking to talk to him. We did i got alot of my chest and he explained his side of things. He ask to be back in aria's life threw pictures and updates i had no problem with that but i wanted her a parents permission first. They are on vacation right now so its a waiting game right now but aria's a mom had no issue's with it so i doubt her a dad will ethier. If he ever want a face 2 face visit with her i told him that he would have to talk to them about it that's something i wont get involed in i believe he needs to explain things to them. But he does have my support. A few years ago i did this video project with a friend we ask eachother question talk about where we see ourselves just life in general it was really fun ( still have the tape). I wanted to do that with aria i wanted both her birthparetns to be in this i wanted him to try and explain things to her and i want to show her just how much we love her and give her the tape when she old enough to really understand. So a few questions first one being does anyone think that this is a good idea do you think she would like it.

The second what would you ask what would you say or what to know being in aria's place. I wanna show her that us not loving her was father from the truth and that she is loved frm all sides we care about her. If anyone responds to this that would be so great thanks.