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I agree with being honest. My amother was very protective of me and would get quite flustered when I asked questions about my adoption. Rather than being one of the people who I should have been open to regarding my feelings, she became one of the outsiders. It sure would have been nice to have had a friend to work with me.
Even if your ason searches for them someday and is very disappointed and hurt by what he finds, he will remember that he had a close friend that didn't put up roadblocks.
My amom, who was like a saint, is no longer with us. The one negative thing that she did was to always block my questions about my adoption.
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