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i have just begun reading the primal wound. im an adoptee and going to be 21 in 20 days!! super excited to know that i can begin my search to find my bmom. the book so far though has open my eyes to feelings i can not express. i never felt i bonded with my amom and adad the way other children did. in fact my parents and i never really spent time together. im not ungrateful to them they have always given me a roof over my head and food in my tummy. but theyre have been times when i felt i needed someone there. just to be there. there are things i feel i can never go to them for and never talk to them about. and i wouldnt say it makes me damaged but i do feel it is something to over come. everyone has something in life to overcome. this or that. i often wonder if i had grown up with my bmom if we would have bonded... you know those mother daughter movie nights. or those camping trips with dad. i did these things with friends and their families because mine wasnt interested. and i didnt grow up with sibblings so often times i felt i had no one. in reading this book i am hoping to better understand bits of myself regarding my relationships and thoughts... i know its not the same with everyone and every situation but i do believe some points are acurate.
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