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My husband and I decided our blog needs to be private now that Declan is here. The jury is still out on whether we'll post pics on facebook or myspace. I feel comfortable doing it because I have chosen the highest security features on those sites so the only people that an view them are my "friends" that I've approved. So, anywho, we haven't decided (any thoughts on that??!?).

My second question is this- birth mom is really wanting to post pics on her facebook page. She ask my permission and I told her the caseworker encouraged us not to so we're still deciding if we will or not. She said just to let her know.

Ug. I'm not sure what to say here. We have a handful of mutual friends and the way that facebook works will make it easy for them to see her pics. I've worked hard to protect her privacy in our area (though she's open about it to those mutual contacts of ours that she does see). Any thoughts on this? I don't know why it hit me weird when she asked yesterday. I should just chill b/c she is his bmom and should be able to post pics right? Thanks for any advice.