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Just 2-3 days ago i was so down , depressed and having sleepless nights worrying what does the future have in store for me as our baby grows older and starts to hate me.
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I went through something similar when I went on these sites and then had it in my head that my grown son, who I placed in a wonderful adoptive family, was somehow "damaged" by my choice and must be a complete and utter emotional wreck, unable to sustain relationships, is angry, bitter, etc., etc. Nevermind that there has never been any indication that this is true based on the updates I received over the years from his parents and him; nevermind that he has shown himself to be a kind, caring, sensitive, successful, thoughtful person. I still thought I must have done something so terrible and that he must be "messed up" because of my decision made as a teenager. Then I finally came to my senses and realized I had to look at my situation for what it is and was, and not be influenced by the rantings of others who may have legitimate issues based on their particular circumstances which are totally different from mime, but who also may have an axe to grind.
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Connecting to you made me feel close to our b.mom. Thank you.
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That was such a beautiful compliment you paid me. Thank YOU!