[annaguat]

I don't know if it going to be ok in the sense that you probably mean ok but yet at the same time it will most likely be ok. I want to encourage you and tell you that my now 17 yr old DD, adopoted at 4, had many issues like that as did her bio brother adopted at 5 1/2 now almost 19. They in essence had instituational retardation (lack of stimulation). Yes, there is residual, even now,but at the same time they are great human beings and some of their hardships early on in life have made them strong and uniquely who they are. Your precious son has been home just briefly. Give it all some time. I know when I immigarted tot eh US as a teen I was very overwhelmed and tired eventhough I understood some of the language. He has not yet had the time to even settle in yet. I do hope all the tests come back negative in that he doesn't have any medical issues. Hugs and enjoy your new little one. Anna