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Just popping in here as our youngest son also has some delays (language mainly so far). I would be really cautious about taking him for too many tests right after bringing him home. He really needs to learn how to trust you, and that might be hard to do if he is being poked and prodded all the time. JMO, of course. And how accurate can the tests be at this point - his world has been turned upside down.
My DH pointed out the same thing when I got worried about delays, autism, etc - he said "He is who he is and we love him no matter what". It totally calmed me down, because it helped me see I love him 100% BECAUSE of who he is...no in spite of his issues. Good luck, and hang in there, everything will be fine.
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Mom to bio dd - age 16 - 
Mom to adopted ds - age 10 -
Waiting to adopt #3 from South Africa
December 2005 - Began Homestudy
May 2006 - Homestudy approved - 
June 2006 - Profile in South Africa
July 2006 - waiting for a referral!!!!!!
Nov 2006 - Referral - it's a boy!!!! 
Dec 27th - leave for SA! the countdown begins....
January 22nd - Home in Canada with new baby boy. 
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