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Old 09-02-2008, 12:40 PM
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I really appreciate the encouraging words. The abusive relationship was in the past. My husband is very loving. We decided to put the adoption on hold at the beginning of all of this. His suggestion was not to not say anything but to just let our Agency know I have been getting help through a therapist and, when I am ready, let them know we are ready to be back out there for consideration. We also would submit a letter from my therapist saying if I am ready. My husbands stance is that the actual details only really need to be disclosed to the therapist and the fact that I am getting the help I need and when I am ready to be back out there is all the Agency needs to be informed of (unless they request more information ofcourse). Curious as to some opinions on that. Thank you.
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05-Jan-2008- Began Homestudy/First in Home visit
19-Jan-2008- Second Visit with social worker
22-Jan-2008- All paperwork submitted
11-Feb-2008- Signed contract with our agency, paid our registration fee, and submitted our profile/book

25-Feb-2008- We're officially waiting for a match!
7-March-2008- Certified to adopt

8-July-2009 MATCHED!! Baby is due 13-February-2010 [/b]

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