[HappyHopefulMommy]

Thanks guys. I like the letter instead of sentences. In the end it took him 2 days to write the sentences. Sometimes it is really hard because we have a bio daugther who, at times we discipline very different than the fost/adopt kids (just because we are working on attaching with these kids). It is so hard to find the balance in everything and to find some sort of fairness in it all. "J" is doing pretty good, but it is so hard to find that balance between attaching and disciplining. I have never had to follow through so much with consequences in 8 years with our bio daugther - these kids push us to the limit. It is so good to have support here - thanks.