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Open the door, but let her walk through if she wants. I mean, who knows where she is with her adoption story? Every story is different and everyone reacts different to it.
Maybe D can have a short discussion about OA and the relationship you guys have? Maybe that will allow her to see she isn't the kind to hold 'ill feelings' towards birth parents.
Or
Maybe it will make it worse. We just don't know, without knowing her story, how she will react.
Or D can ask the mom who disclosed to approach the situation.
Dunno, toughy for sure.
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Brandy
Adopted Adult, Mom & Wife
Mothering From The Sidelines of Open Adoption
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