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Mine is a twisted search. I reached out to my adoption agency and they told me that there was letter on file that my mother sent on my 18th birthday. I never knew I was adopted till I turned 38 and I found out by accident. When the agency looked into the letter further, I found out my birthmom died 5 years ago. I was crushed. But I did gain a sister and a grandmother! I also have found my father, but am aprehensive to make contact. Not really sure of the right vs wrong way and I may only get one shot at it so I don't want to screw it up! Many times if you ask the agency, they will try to call or write the person you are looking for on your behalf since its a closed state. They can contact them, they just can't give you names, addresses and phone numbers directly. If your family wants to be found they will respond!
Good luck!
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