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We had decided long ago that whatever the race of our first child, we would specify that race for our second since we planned to have two children as well. Our oldest dd turned out to be 1/2AA 1/2CC. Our second dd was supposed to be as well. I'm not so sure and neither is her bmom (or anyone who comes in contact with her) that there isn't something else - Hispanic perhaps? Honestly, I must hear a 1,000 times a day that she's Samoan. Anyway, I guess my point is that even if you specify race and hope for a sibling that "looks" like your dd, there are no gaurantees. They do have a similar skin shade, but completely different features and hair types. We also now have a bio CC baby. No one can tell me that these girls are not sisters in every single way. Seeing my girls together now and knowing how it all turned out.... I would have looked more into the CC baby if I was you. But when I just had one dd, I felt the same way. Experience and time changed how I felt....
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Casey
Proud Mommy of three!
Hanna (6/05), Sofie (1/07), & Lilly (10/07)
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