
08-29-2008, 07:22 AM
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Originally Posted by Vogi2002
Supa - I can't speak for everyone, but I would have loved to have had an AA child to share thier heritage also, but that is specifically because we are CC, so we do not share that with our child. I would be okay with BR, because they too share the AA heritage. I'm sorry but I don't see how CC is a heritage. Irish...german...european....maybe but CC is just another word for white skin it seems.
I can understand wanting a hispanic child if you have a hispanic child already. I don't understand being open to anything but AA if you already have a hispanic child, if that's the case it's not about trying to share heritage.
Beyond that, I think even though it IS about heritage and race (not *color*, race) because of the need for AA homes I can see why some people would say that I am not goign to be open to CC at all...or hispanic...or anything else. Especially the dreaded "full AA" that so many people don't even consider. At least that is why I did it...because I KNEW I would be the only family open to full AA, and at the same time I wanted to have them share thier heritage / race.
Does that make sense? LOL I know I'm jumping around, going back and forth from working.
I guess I would be "offended" if yall were open to BR and CC, but not full AA.
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I totally understand what your saying.
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