I wish I could post this anonymously because it's just SO hokey...but...
I "found" the right denomination for from an online quiz.
Do a google search for "beliefomatic" and you'll find a quiz that runs you through all the major beliefs...you click your answers and it gives you a rating of how you "match" to various religions.
I know, I know...it sounds like a big fat joke but it seriously is how I found my church! I did a lot of seeking on my own, a lot of research (I have shelves of books!) and found what I was looking for in a 2 minute quiz!
you should try it out...maybe there is a religion that matches your beliefs but you just dont know it.
here is a link:
Beliefnet: Belief-O-Matic, Religion Beliefs, What Religion Am I Quiz -- Beliefnet.com