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I think you would be fine. We entered the fost/adopt process wanting 2 under 3. Our license ended up saying 3 under 5. We were placedwith a 3, 5 and 6 yr old. I asked our SW about it since our license says differently and she said it was no big deal. Also since you would be keeping birth order I do not think you would be "hurting" your family. And I don't think you are insane. It is kind of funny how the workers do not seem to pay attention to what we say we want though. I think it sounds like fun - keep us posted. Oh - and I do not think Grandma could keep them with out passing homestudy, even if she has had them for a few years. One of our fost/adopt kids grandma's had a drug history and they would not even consider her.
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August 2005 - approved with 1st agency
October 2006 - 1st match (she lost the baby at 7 months)
November 2006- 2nd match
May 2007 - birthmom chose to parent
July 2007 - decided to switch agencies
Jan. 2008 - approved with agency #2
July 2008 - placed with our forever kids - sib set of 3
November 2008 - suprise phone call and we added their younger brother
March 24, 2009 - finalized adoptions for first 3
June 16, 2009 - finalize adoption for #4
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