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Old 08-28-2008, 03:05 PM
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Originally Posted by Sleeplvr
Once again... no one has officially stated the baby's race.

I've adopted twice... once from the foster care system and once through a private agency so I've have a little experience with how AA families are treated and what is expected. For example the private agency we used I asked what would happen if a biracial situation turned into a CC situation. I was told we would never get that baby. And sure enough we did have a situation with a baby born where there was discussion over the baby's race. The CC bmom selected us because she wanted an AA family...we wanted him but because of his coloring they thought he might be CC... they found another family. You know what... I wasn't going to fight it. A few weeks later we got DD. I was kind of ticked over the whole situation but I let it go.

I woould have been SOOOO upset!! Seriously i have friends who have bio BR children and they dont look AA at all BUT they are still BR. Besides color can and most time will change.
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