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Old 08-28-2008, 01:11 PM
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My daughter was 21 months when we arrived home. And I would do it again in a heart beat. Actually next time I hope to go older. My daughter was a caged animal on day 1 and we spent abotu 1 hour together. On day 2 she ran away from me at first sight of me -- no joke -- but I forced her to spend the day with me anyway. On day 3 she went with me, unhappy at first, and spent the day. On day 4 she let me know that I was mom and I best start acting like it -- including not returning her to the orphanage at night. Each child and each family are different but personally I would take a toddler over an infant any day.

Samantha
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Me:
placed in adoptive home 7/14/76 (7 years old)
adoption finalized 10/21/77

My daughter:
REFERRAL 6/29/06 (18 months old)
Court date 7/26/06
Meet daughter for first time 8/29/06
Re-adoption finalized 5/16/07

I LOVE being a single mom!!
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