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Re: fairydust
What you've put down is exactly what my adoption worker told me over the phone. C can sign over his rights while I'm still pregnant (she said the bmom has to at least be past her first trimester, and I am), but that R and I have to both wait 48 hours after the birth to sign over. R will be the legal father listed on the OBC. I am going to ask her to send two copies of medical history forms and everything else like it that they have bfathers fill out.
At first I was concerned about the privacy issue, since my grandmother works there. But the first thing that D (the boss-lady and my..."caseworker?") said to me is that my papers will be kept in their private files in the office, the only drawers that my grandmother does not have keys/access to, and that anything I tell her will stay between us. "Your grandmother needs to stay your grandmother after all," she reassured me.
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