I have found that there a some people in the adoption triad that truly had the raw end of the deal and they are out in cyberspace telling everyone that will listen. They are also the ones that usually have something to say about those who have a good adoption situation and are usally the ones that don't believe that an adoptee can have a better life sometimes. I know I will get flamed for generalizing but I am only saying some in a triad are like this.
As for those on this site, there are more here that support than flame so please continue to visit here and post. I have found many great suggestions here to help me when I am having a hard time and have found a few good friends that I can't go a day without talking to. I hope we can all help you with the same. Keep your chin up and know that you are the mother you want to be to your daughter.
