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If it were me, I would write a letter. I say this for a few reasons, a) it allows you to fully think out what you want to say and you can revise it if need be and b) it allows him to fully take in what you say and act on it if and when he feels comfortable doing so.
I always feel that although the benefits of calling someone is an immediate response (usually) there is also the chance that you catch them off guard and they can be defensive.
Just my .2!! I hope this all works out for you!!
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Forgiveness is almost a selfish act because of its immense benefits to the one who forgives.
- Lawana Blackwell
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