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He is about 29 years old and lives outside of the home. I found him on a search engine as being a possible relative to my sister and when I found his number on 411.com and called him he was very calm and non chalant about the entire situation. He and his wife stated they didnt understand why the amom was so mean to me the first time that I spoke with her and simply gave me my bsister's cell phone number. But when I called her noone answered. My bsister called me back at about 1AM and burst out in tears and distress to learn who I was. She stated I had no right to contact her and demanded to know who gave me the phone number. Since then I received 3 horrible VM from the aparents and my oldest sister whom I reunited with over a year ago received phone calls from both the aparents and my bsister stating that we ruined their family. The entire situation is heart breaking because not only will we never meet our bsister but we feel extremely bad about what may have happened to the abrother that gave me the number. I have not contacted my bsister or her aparents since, but I truly feel the urge to contact the abrother to apologize for putting him in the middle. Im afraid that he may reject me as well, but I really would like to contact him and let him know my place and my purpose. My oldest sister and I have had a really hard time with understanding what has happend. I cannot imagine the reaction that we were given to be logical, yet we are trying our best to deal with the situation. Should I avoid contacting him. Just asking for some advice before I make yet another mistake.
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