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I understand your situation, and for what it's worth, I think you made the best decision possible. I think I would have done the same thing.
I do know my bmother's identity, but haven't made contact. While I have come closer to deciding to contact, one of my obstacles is I am not ready to share this with my parents, who are fantastic. It's totally unrealistic on my part as they are the one's who have always encouraged me to search, and offered to help in any way. I guess I'm not comfortable including them until I decide how I feel about what I find, and I'm not comfortable excluding them, so that leaves me doing nothing. (there are other considerations too, just sticking to the topic)
Good question though! Give me something to think about.
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