I don't feel I have the "right" necessarily to know if my child decides to search as an adult. Just seems to be something I would want to support them in and help if I can. I hope my kids include me on a lot of "Big Things" when they are an adult. Career change, relocating, having children, marriage etc. By "include" I don't mean ask for permission or even to see how I'd feel about it, just in the way of communication.
Certainly their right not to tell me though.
