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Seems like now is not an ideal time to visit the second adoption plans. I am willing to bet it is because of the physical pain your husband is in that has tainted his desire to adopt again. the up coming surgery and daily trilas and tribulations of parenting can definately infulence the decidsion to add to your family.
I am with those who sueggest to wait until Hubby is back to his tip top shape again and healed up before revisiting the idea.
I too want baby #4 but if Hubby is having outside stressors discussing expanding our family is not a topic I would bring up. I know my DH is not opposed to another baby, but I also know how hard it is to think positive about such a live changing experience when everything around you feels like crud.
The fact that your DH brought the idea up tells me he more than likely does want another child, it is just not the ideal time to take that step.
You know how men are when they are in pain. They are the biggest babies, so give him some time. He needs to be the baby right now lol.
EZ
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