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As a husband, I say you have to respect his thoughts, reguardless of how it makes you feel. (no I am not the man is right, woman in the kitchen type.)
I am the, its easier to get over an emotional loss as a couple, than the marriage loss with something as important as a child involved type.
You do not want to egg him on to have a second child, just for him to spend the next 18 years resenting you and the child because he was coaxed into it. If you two are meant to have to children then he will come around. If not, then you need to respect his wishes.
Good luck with the decision, hopefully he comes around because he feels in his heart he wants another child.
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