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I think it's baby vs. baby. I have two bio boys and with the first we were so relaxed and laid back, he was a very laid back baby so I think this is why we were the way we were with him. The second was a very VERY high maintance baby, still is at almost 14! He cried all the time, still wears his feelings on his sleeve, very sensitive and much more dependent. This made us more on edge with him, worried about him, I guess more intune to him. Then Castle came along and I think we have all treated her differently because she is not only the baby but a girl. She demands attention in a different way then either of the boys did and is so "baby" I think because she is a girly girl and they were boys. Like an above poster said, I think you react to each in a different way wheather they are first, second, third, adopted or bio each is their own person and has different needs and wants.
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