[skolnyfamily]

This is my husband's views:

He says he will never tell anything bed about the birth parents, or avoid the subject. he agrees in giving the child as much information the child wants, and will support a search when the child is 18yo. He also agrees in sending the birth parent's pictures and letter. But no contact until the child is 18yo.

However he does not believe (in which I disagree) that the child can see him as a father if the child sees have constant contact with birthparents. he believes that this way he would be only a home where the child lives. He believes that if he is the parent, he should be the only parent and he thinks visitations are confusing and diminish his paper as a father of the child....

I disagree, but respect his opinion. We are taking classes through the county this next month, so maybe his ideas will change... but I am getting thinking on the hypothesis of it not changing at all...