[kakuehl]

We need to deal with our pasts, but we also did to remember that the past is gone. We can't change it although we can "reframe it." We have today. We choose each day how we will use that day. Will we try to break the patterns of our past or will we continue to let the past cotrol our present. If we fail today, tomorrow is a new day. (And yes, Jackie, forgiving ourselves as God has forgiven us.)