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Old 08-21-2008, 10:00 PM
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"bio family gets first choice and if the grandparents want to raise their grandchild even with mom in the picture there is nothing wrong with that. mom is this childs parent and as so she has the right to choose to give guardianship to the gp as long as childrens services has not removed the child."


If you don't know the bio family than you would feel that "nothing is wrong with that". However the Bio family is very unstabled as well. They raised a son (bio Dad) who is in state prison (3 years) now for battery with a deadly weapon and burgulary. I don't beleive that or feel a woman who has abused her three little girls physically, emotionally, and sexually, and then tried to sell our son (her 4th child) at birth to a carnival in another state for bail money has ANY right to choose where here 5th child should be placed. In what stabled state of mind does a Mother have to do these things to any child/baby let alone her own? I am just suprised whether it's another county or not that DCS would be so relaxed on this after all of this and TPR was given on our son just 8 months ago now. Sorry if I sound upset, it's not towards anyone. It's just so painful to know that my son has a baby sister that is 13 months younger than he and I am afraid for her because her Mother is living with the G'Parents and I am sure they leave the baby alone with her. DCS should look at the history and oversee the care at least.
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* CPR, UP, & First Aide finished: January 5th 2007
* 1st Foster class: March 24th 2007
* 2nd Foster class: March 31st 2007
* 3rd Foster class: April 14th 2007
* 1st Homestudy: June 22nd 2007
* Adoption for Foster class: June 23rd 2007
* Licensed on July 18th 2007
* Received a call for a 2 day old
baby boy: July 23rd 2007
* Bio Mom & Bio Dad Rights Terminated: January
3rd 2008
* Petitioned for adoption: January 10th 2008
* Adoption FINAL on February 27th 2008


~ September 2008~Starting the Adoption process again! This time we are wanting to adopt domestically. Doing our research and trying to find the right agency. Not easy to do! Any suggestions or advice from anyone???
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