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Originally Posted by dpen6
Rylee,
You said that you have seen some "adopted" kids be spoiled and rude, I have seen MANY< MANY biological kids be spoiled and rude. All parents have the ability to bring up spoiled rude kids, I don't think that being an adoptive parent is going to preclude them to bring up spoiled rude kids, or adoptive parents have any expecatation that would have been any differnt if they had bio.
another thing I have noticed about parents is the ability to call other people's children spoiled and rude but tend to think that there "own" are perfect and ignore the rude behavior or make excuses for it.
I can assure you my mom did not bring up spoiled rude kids. He expecations of us were to be good peole and be the best we could be. Kinda likemost of the good parents I have seen.
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Yep,,, right with you here on this one!!!!!!!
I also believe that once a child is an adult it is up to them to decide their own behaviour,,,
We are raising our daughter to be the best she can be and to teach her about respect and consequences and self-worth,,,,
We are doing this as her parents,, nothing to do with her being adopted,,,we have nothing to prove to anybody,,,,
And to be honest right now her bmom doesnt even come into the equation when we think about how to raise our child.
All we want for our daughter is to be the best she can be ,, be happy and be a productive member of society,,, i would think that this is what most parents would want for their children adopted or not..