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Rylee,
You said that you have seen some "adopted" kids be spoiled and rude, I have seen MANY< MANY biological kids be spoiled and rude. All parents have the ability to bring up spoiled rude kids, I don't think that being an adoptive parent is going to preclude them to bring up spoiled rude kids, or adoptive parents have any expecatation that would have been any differnt if they had bio.
another thing I have noticed about parents is the ability to call other people's children spoiled and rude but tend to think that there "own" are perfect and ignore the rude behavior or make excuses for it.
I can assure you my mom did not bring up spoiled rude kids. He expecations of us were to be good peole and be the best we could be. Kinda likemost of the good parents I have seen.
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