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Originally Posted by BrockBaby
Something hit me as I read that. If we want change..then we have to change the way we are as well. We have to let go of the feelings that others are judging us...and stick up for what we know is right. Instead of saying "well they think this..they think that..." Change THEIR minds about it!!!! Show them something different. Educate them. Cowering in the corner, holding on to shame....gives them the "ammunition that they are looking for to prove their point. But, being as Jackie said, a power woman...will make them step back and take notice that the "ideas" that they had were wrong.
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I think you hit the nail on the head, BrockBaby. We have to change the way we are as well.
I´m not about to cower in some corner - but judgment is also part of basic human nature. We judge others. It´s normal. I am a power woman, but in a male society I am looked down on now as the University Professor who made a terrible choice. That is reality. But I´m not giving up. Not by a long shot.
Love,
Liliana