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Originally Posted by fisbaby
So I read through the forums usually daily but I don't know why today's just got me thinking. I read Crick's thread and I guess it just started really making me think about helping my little guy to understand where he came from. I mean he's not even a year and we have had him since the day he was born but he does have a half sibling too. I just started crying and called my DH asking him if he worried about it. I know he's right in that he'll be ok b/c he knows how very much we love him. We tell him that and show him that constantly. Sometimes I read an adoption book to him or tell him how glad I am he was given to us but I wonder at what point do you start talking about it more or do you just know the right time? I just want him to be ok, I don't want him to ever ever doubt how much we love him ya know?
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My dh was adopted at a couple of weeks old. He said he has always known he was adopted--cannot remember ever not knowing. My in-laws read him his little adoption book, loved him and raised him. His siblings were also adopted. None of them had issues about it or wanted to search.
Love your little one, read your book to him and just live your life. We can't control what the future will bring, but we can do our best today to love each other and take care of our children.