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Originally Posted by feelingreyt
belle,
I can not speak for manni, but I don't believe she meant YOU did not love YOUR child. She was just saying that not ALL bmom's give up custody because they believe its the best thing for the baby. Every person is different and every adoption takes place for different reasons.
I have, personally, read alot of your posts. It's obvious you love your child. But there are bmom's that do not. There are parents that don't love their children that they are parenting. It's a sad world.
Manni, sorry if I overstepped here, but I really don't believe you meant anyone "here" on the forums didn't love their child.
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I work with kids that are in a treatment facility, I hear horrors that you couldn't imagine that have been brought on these kids by family members. Trust me, I know some people don't want to be parents. Key word there being SOME. I don't get that from manni's posts. She is good with sweeping generalizations.
ETA: If there is anyone that thinks that there are people that shouldn't be raising kids, it is me, but a lot of women that I know that have voluntarily placed, could have been and do make awesome parents. I'm not saying ALL by any stretch of the imagination, but there are quite a few. Again, sweeping generalizations and pronouncements from on high are tiresome and sickening.
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First mom to the amazing Kiddo and adopted adult.
1-4-2009 Mom and I visit Kiddo despite the bad weather. He really loved the blue mittens I made him and even helped me plan my living room. Apparently Hot Wheels wallpapper is the way to go.
2-16-2009 I got a promotion, that comes with a raise. Mom and Dad are visiting and we're going to Al's for pie to celebrate.
4-27-2009 Dad surprises me with a Lady Ugly Stick (an awesome fishing rod that is pink) and a 2nd Iowa Light Artillery Battery jacket. I'm a lucky girl!
5-30-2009 Kiddo turns five. It is hard to believe he is that old already, it seems like just yesterday he was being born. I was at peace for the first time on his birthday, what a nice feeling.
6-13&14 2009 A cannon live fire in Casper WY. We got third place and I got to see Devil's Tower for the first time, it was pretty awesome.
7-4-2009 Amelia the kitten comes to live with me and Liz. Talk about jealousy, Liz will adjust though.
Last edited by belleinblue1978 : 08-20-2008 at 09:26 AM.
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