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I feel for you, really I do. Honestly though, it sounds like DCS is not involved with the new sibling? If the grandparents have guardianship then there's really nothing they can do about it.

As for DCS keeping siblings together- it really varies from CW to CW. Our adopted daughter's half brother was born in January. We notified DCS (same county she had come from)that if he came into care we'd like him.. He did come into care and was placed elsewhere.. We did everything we could- begged, pleaded even asked for sibling visits and got absolutely nowhere. On the other hand that very same county placed our FS's newborn brother with us this summer with absolutely no fight. Go figure!

Good luck!