tlee,
As an adoptee reunited with my bparents I can say I have felt the same as what you have expressed. I seem to be the one making more effort to keep the contact going and sometimes I am ready to say enough is enough. However, something I have realized is even though I am the one making the phone calls and bringing up dates for visits my bparents are always so ready for me to be there with them. What I have come to understand is I have to take care of myself, keep my life balanced and do what works for me. Best wishes along your journey.
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