Hey Kathy!
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Secrets have a tendency to take on a life of their own.
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I know I'm taking this a little out of context maybe but the secret pain within my heart? It took on it's own life. Heck, it became like a twin-self; a ghost standing next to me. The closing up into the void of silent grief while staring out at the faces of other people and thinking too myself, "I've got a secret and I won't share it because I've seen what can happen when I do." And not just over my children, but over other things too.
:-( You're right about secrets, Kathy.
You cannot change the past, you can only acknowledge it and move on. Focus on meeting your daughter and building a relationship with her. Remember that none of us is perfect and no one has the right to be judgmental of others unless they are![/quote]