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I agree with you Sal. How do you recognize a toxic person?? I have had my hopes up...for years, thinking that one day, my bparents would understand.
They are definately all caught up in their own stuff...and cannot see past it.
I was soo hurt recently because I really thought that my bmom and I had made some huge breakthroughs this past winter. After 16yrs...I felt that maybe we could have a relationship..the walls were coming down. We talked ALOT these past months...well in retrospect...maybe I talked alot?? She even sent me a birthday card this year...first time in 16yrs...that has to mean something doesn't it??
We talked several times about the book that I had read..Primal wound. She wanted to read it, so I told her I would send it to her.(which I did) That was a month ago, and I haven't heard from her since. There was talk of us getting together in august (right now, while on vacation) but have not heard a word from her.
yet again...I"m feeling soo hurt, and insignificant...
I am yet again feeling sooo emotional ...unmet expectations. You would think after all these years, I would learn....
tlee
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