[Magiedcat]

I think it depends on what your goal is: is your goal to be pregnant or to be parents? You know if you go through adoption, you are going to be parents. If your goal is be pregnant, then you should try the IVF again. We went through IVF because I knew that if I didn't at least try, I would regret it later. But after I had tried, I knew I was done with it and my goal was to be a parent...if you think you can emotionally handle the possibility of it not working and losing all your momentum on the adoption front, then try it. But if you can't, then go forward with the adoption. You can always come back to the IVF.

Good luck...I know this is a tough decision.