Honestly Tara it almost made me want to throw up because of how badly I know it is going to hurt for her. I think you are right...it's still early. I don't want her to think I wouldn't WANT her baby, but I would never want that on her (or anybody). Adoption is a last resort for bparents KWIM?
I know...my heart was breaking too. I think it's a lot due to the "honeymoon" period. I do think if she said it again though, I will talk further with her on it. Honestly it was so awkward...I didn't know WHAT to say!
Of course I love her & it was a second of awkwardness then back to laughing and giggling. I swear, this is a girl I could be good friends with even if we just met. Of course, it's still early, but she is big on communication, which I love.
It's so odd to have two OA on such different sides of the spectrum.
