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I have had reactions on both ends of the spectrum. Back in grade school it'd been spread around school and a girl cornered me and called me a reject. Apart from that I have had many of the same type comments you described. I had someone relate my adoption to Angelina Jolie and how "she collects kids like they're pets." I've had people ask me what I've done wrong, as if it was somehow my fault.
I know how one (or several) bad experiences can seriously deter you from being open about it but I have had more positive experiences than I have negative. Friends whom I have opened up to have proven themselves to be invaluable to me in these past two years when I've begun exploring my adoption.
As another post said above, a lot of it is just ignorance. Don't let yourself be put off by those who just don't understand. Keep an open mind and try your hardest to remain open.
Best of luck!
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