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I'm not sure it's racism. I've said this before...here and on other sites: I'd much rather a couple/single person was honest with themselves and NOT raise a child they didn't feel completely comfortable with. It's not fair to the child, period.
As far as this person changing her mind......we've not been there, but I can understand. ---Don't think we'd ever do that---but hey......we're both CC and we won't take a CC baby. Maybe THAT makes us racist? Maybe.......
But I know we're not the best couple to parent a CC baby; and if someone else feels the same about parenting a baby of color, good for them. They know where they stand---as dh and I do.
Sincerely,
Linny
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