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Old 08-17-2008, 11:43 AM
Becki_in_IN Becki_in_IN is offline
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You know sometimes visits are only on a certain day of the week or maybe biomom has all ready gotten a job and can only come on a certain day. You never know. Remember, you are the one that is being paid by the county to take care of this child. That is probably why they expect you to provide transportation whenever they ask. (I use to have visits in my house and I would much rather take the kids to visits elsewhwere anytime.) I never was asked when it was convenient. I was just told. That's the way it is.

As someone all ready said, the courts have to bend over backwards for bioparents so when it comes to TPR there will be grounds to terminate. And besides, some bios really get their act together and they deserve to have the kids back.
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Adoptive mom to two great girls, ages 14 and 12, and their little brother, age 2 1/2
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