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Originally Posted by mommamarci
Honestly, I am not sure. In the hospital (he was a baby born situation) she wanted everything: letters, pics, phone calls, visits, all of it. However, after getting discharged her mom told her it would be too hard to have that much contact, so when she signed TPR, she told the agency she had changed her mind and wanted no contact at all. The agency asked us to send letters and pics and leave it up to her whether or not she opened them. So, that is what we are doing. I am hoping, since she one time expressed a desire for openness, one day she will want more. I am not counting on it though.
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The opinions of other people has had alot to do with the other moms of my kids inconsistency in wanting contact. People of influence have told them it would be too hard, or wasn't good for kiddos and they listened. It's been a lot of work to let them know that we will do our best to keep it safe for all of us. I hope she's reading the letters!