Thanks for responding
And don't be sorry about asking ANYTHING at this point
I am so scaredright now, that I will put of all the details on the line just to get answers and direction. NO WAY am I giving up! I do not intend to lose him.
And yes I do believe the foster mom wants him. In fact, she and my estranged mother have joined forces. Sad cause my mother hasn't had anything to do with him really, and she is an awful mother. There are 5 of us kids and 4 of us DO NOT speak to her, only 1 does to have a relationship with my stepdad. She even stood up in court and LIED. Just recently, she stood up and denied we are of Indian decent. We don't look it but we have been told our entire lives by that woman that we are 1/8 Indian, so I find it ironic.
I have applied for our CDIB but we are still in the research stage still and OF COURSE the court just took my mother's word for it on the spot. Sad but I am just trying to show that she is willing to lie just to be in control. (my other sister & I plan on writing a book one day of all the horrid things she has done to us.)
Anyways, I realize that my time is running out and I have to get my nephew moved or the 6 month rule could apply for the foster parents. I did hire an attorney in that town, small town, and so far he is doing research into the case. He agrees that the SWs are very GOD like. Yes they are doing a good deed but how many times is there another way? I LOVE and miss my nephew, my heart hurts. IT has been broken since the day my sister took him out of my home to go back to that town. I can't give up. I won't
I am sickened that CPS can block a relative from keeping a nephew in the family. Mind you I have 5 kids, a home, a husband who makes 6 figures, and I am a student going into a great medical career to make the same as hubby. NO that does not make an instant yes to adopt my nephew, but we are not drug addicted, homeless, nomads without a clue either! SO why did they keep important information from us?
Thanks again, I have been researching so many hours lately. I wish I could speed up our state adoptions approval but really I am just making contact on Monday. CPS knew I would need that and very conveniently left that info. out. I will rush and get my sister to the attorney this week to finish up paper work. I will check out the thread you mentioned
THANK you!!!!!! I need all the information I can get. I just keep praying, that if my intentions are good, I stay in the right (unlike my mother), with God we can do this!!!!! He can't just get out of the fight because he is tired (my nephew) he has no voice, I HAVE to stay in it with him...................
Thanks and feel free to ask my ss number if you think it would help! LOL
