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Copper, your words are not selfish at all. I am wavering back and forth between adding another family member to our home or not. I can clearly see the pros and cons to each. I think it's better to know who are you are and be honest with yourself than to bring another kid into your life whom you will end up resenting because you have to work longer and harder during your life and you will have less time/resources to do what you enjoy. I am going through these emotions and thoughts now and they are not pretty.
Enjoy the family you do have.
Amy K, NJ
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Adopted baby Joanna from Tver Region 10/06
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