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Originally Posted by Trace7
LOL - well, I hope not to spoil her rotten!  If my husband has anything to do with it, that won't happen. He is a very unspoiled only child himself. But I do want to be able to take her on trips (especially back to China more than once - which is easier for us since my brother lives in Hong Kong) and to provide her with lessons or sports or whatever her interests are.
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I hope you didn't take that the wrong way. I don't want a spoiled kid, but there are ways of spoiling them that you might not be able to do with multiple kids. I am an only also and don't think I was spoiled with things, but I got to go to Europe when only the rich kids could go with the language classes... twice. My parents were able to pay for my college education and they were still able to retire early.
I guess I want to spoil her and ourselves once she has gone off to college. Ugh, I can't believe I just wrote those words. Can I freeze time?