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Old 08-14-2008, 07:14 PM
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I am not aware of any info on any of our children that came home by adoption but am aware of two situations in the US with open adoptions.

In one case the girl later retracted the story. Apparently to save face she had stated a rape had happened. The adoptive parents did not find out the correct info until their child was a todler.

In another case the bio family had stated the step brother was the bio father, love relationship, but years later the bio mother, who was very young at time of placement, called told that the step father was the biological father. He had abused her and she was scared for her life to state the correct info at time was placement.

It is hard to find out info that is painful regarding the adoption of your child. As others stated all info might not always correct even if innitially there was no negative info. I hope your family is able to deal with it the best way for your family no matter what happened or did not.

Hugs, Anna
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May 5,2005 start
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