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The question bothers me less now that I have been answering it for 3.5 years. And I don't get it anywhere near as often as I did when they were little. But I have usually answered, 'They are not biological siblings, but they are brother and sister now.'

No, it isn't anyone's business, but at the same time, I do think most people mean well. They just don't stop to think.